It has been several weeks since I have posted to this blog. The holidays have come and gone, my end of the year bookkeeping and tax preparation is nearly complete, and we have survived a ton of nasty weather here in Iowa and all the cancellations and disruptions in schedule it created. My boys are back in school. My high school student finally got his finals completed after Christmas and snow days, and my college student is back on campus after having a long Christmas break and surgery to remove his wisdom teeth. We have also had a loved one in and out of the hospital which brings me to my topic for today.
Have you ever thought about how difficult it is to complete your life? After spending a lot of time in hospitals and nursing homes lately, I have been contemplating this issue. It is so sad when a person becomes unable to enjoy anything about their life. Are we really benefitting anyone by artificially keeping people alive with medications and interventions when they barely realize they are here and have no hope of recovery? What do we do about this problem?
Here are some of my conclusions. Just because a medical intervention is available does not mean it is the best choice. I have seen many people who were told they needed a surgical procedure to “improve” their condition. Afterward, they were worse off than if they had opted to live with the condition. The same thing happens with some medications. The side effects turn out to be worse than the condition the medication was meant to treat, yet the doctor will not allow you to discontinue it. They add another medication to the list instead. All medical interventions also come with a financial cost. Sometimes it is a very significant financial cost, and these costs affect all of us even if you do not use the medical system. If you have health insurance and pay taxes, you are paying for the medical system.
What do we do about this problem? Great minds have been struggling with this question and the powerful law makers in Washington have been debating it. Maybe it comes down to personal responsibility. We are responsible for our own health. We must make choices that are smart for us. In order to do that we must force the medical system to change. The individual must be allowed to seek medical advice and choose their own course of action rather than being forced to do whatever the doctor and insurance company determine is best. We need to be allowed and encouraged to gather facts and make decisions about our own health and the health of our loved ones, and we should not have to be “difficult” to accomplish it. How do we force this change?
Denise Owen, denise@best4uinc.com, www.best4uinc.com





